Terence 'Terry' Loveless (5 Jun 1942 - 26 Sep 2023)

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Southend Crematorium 654 Sutton Road Southend on Sea SS2 5PX
Date
1st Nov 2023
Time
1.20pm
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In loving memory of Terence 'Terry' William Loveless who sadly passed away on 26th September 2023.

Dad, or ‘Tel’ to all of you who knew him, was born on 5th June 1942. He was ahead of his time, and was the best father any child could wish for. He changed our nappies, did his share of housework, made time to play with us, and he always had my back.

He was loving, affectionate, tactile, empathetic and kind to all. He was an interesting man with a host of hobbies, a passion for cars, art, a master carpenter and builder, and a knack of finding humour in the bleakest of situations.

He lived a great life, was a loving husband to Betty, adored her parents, was the best of men, and he had a great death, so there isn’t really anything to feel sad about. A great, quick and painless death is like winning the lottery, and don’t we all want to go like that?

I feel like I lost my dad three years ago, when his combined dementia took him from us, and whilst the man I used to love seeing at St Andrew’s looked and sounded like my dad, he was a different person. He was never afraid of death, and accepted he was 81 and wouldn’t live forever, so he’d hate for any of us to feel sad. That’s why his funeral is going to be a celebration of his life. It’s what he wanted, and I can’t think of a better way to say farewell.

Linda Cart donated £40.91 in memory of Terence

RIP Terry. You’re spirit lives on. Love, Linda and Louie

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  • Thank you both so much for your generous donation in Terry’s memory xx

    Posted by Betty on 13/11/2023 Report abuse
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Linda Cart posted a picture
Terry and I along the Courir de Mardi Gras route in Chataignier, Louisiana. A site to behold. I’m dressed in a Mardi Gras wedding outfit  I made.

Terry and I along the Courir de Mardi Gras route in Chataignier, Louisiana. A site to behold. I’m dressed in a Mardi Gras wedding outfit I made.

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Betty Loveless donated £150 in memory of Terence

This donation in memory of Terry is made on behalf of myself and our sons, Antony and Daron together with the friends who kindly donated at his funeral

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Kay Wolny donated £30 in memory of Terence
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From being old neighbours, to friends. You always had time to chat to me over the fence, helped me fit new blinds when I moved, a true gent with a heart of gold. I’m so grateful you got to meet Ada. You will be missed xxxx

From being old neighbours, to friends. You always had time to chat to me over the fence, helped me fit new blinds when I moved, a true gent with a heart of gold. I’m so grateful you got to meet Ada. You will be missed xxxx

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  • That was a special day for both of us when we got to meet Ada 💕 xx

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Terry I will always remember your cheeky smile and the way you made sure everyone was OK x

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  • He was always concerned for others, it was his trademark 💗xx

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Daron Loveless wrote

I learnt so much from my Dad. He instilled in me my love of woodwork as well as teaching me all aspects of the print trade and the time we spent working together is just one of so many happy memories I’ll treasure always. I wish I’d inherited his patience! RIP Dad xx

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Linda Cart posted a picture
Terry and Betty on the iconic boardwalk in Ocean City, Maryland.

Terry and Betty on the iconic boardwalk in Ocean City, Maryland.

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On a lighter note, having laughs in Ocean City, Maryland.

On a lighter note, having laughs in Ocean City, Maryland.

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Tricia Reed donated £30 in memory of Terence

In loving memory of a wonderful, funny man ❤️

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  • Thank you for your kind words and generous donation Tricia xx

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Rural Elton, Louisiana. A little town that time forgot, and Betty and Terry’s USA home for many years

Rural Elton, Louisiana. A little town that time forgot, and Betty and Terry’s USA home for many years

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  • Oh sorry about the duplicate. I was interrupted posting the first. Funeralguide.co please delet this diplicaye.

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Rural Elton, Louisiana. A little town that time forgot. This was Betty and Terry’s Louisiana home for many years and they started many dear friendships here.

Rural Elton, Louisiana. A little town that time forgot. This was Betty and Terry’s Louisiana home for many years and they started many dear friendships here.

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  • How we loved our time there. It may have been a small town but the people had the BIGGEST ❤️ HEARTS and we were made to feel so welcome 🥰

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Dear Terry, I’d like to think it’s not ‘goodby’ but ‘Until we meet again’. You’ll forever be in our hearts and memories. You were such a darling man, and I’ll remember you by this little token of the man you were. Thank you for the swing!

Dear Terry, I’d like to think it’s not ‘goodby’ but ‘Until we meet again’. You’ll forever be in our hearts and memories. You were such a darling man, and I’ll remember you by this little token of the man you were. Thank you for the swing!

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  • You know how he loved ❤️ his little projects Linda. I think he made around 4 in total

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Another enjoyable meeting with our good friends. I am guessing this is the steak house in Kinder, LA. Always a good time and lots of laughs with these two. ❤️

Another enjoyable meeting with our good friends. I am guessing this is the steak house in Kinder, LA. Always a good time and lots of laughs with these two. ❤️

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  • Having delicious meals together was one of our favourite pastimes and I’m pleased to say those occasions were pretty frequent 😂

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This was the occasion of Louie and I meeting our new friends Betty and Terry from Elton, LA via the UK. It was the start of a great friendship lasting for 17+ years now. We  became like family, and have many wonderful memories.

This was the occasion of Louie and I meeting our new friends Betty and Terry from Elton, LA via the UK. It was the start of a great friendship lasting for 17+ years now. We became like family, and have many wonderful memories.

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  • That was an eventful meeting and all these years later I’m so happy we got together ❤️

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Terry with Aaron around 11 years ago. Such a lovely day out xx

Terry with Aaron around 11 years ago. Such a lovely day out xx

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  • Aw, he looks lovely! x

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  • What a lovely memory Sam xx

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Barbara Elliott wrote

A lovely man, I had the pleasure of getting to know for a short time. Will miss his humour . Rest in peace Terry 🙏

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Jane Harwood wrote

He was an very happy go lucky guy always had a smile for everyone it was our pleasure to have known him x

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Miss you Tel, xx

Miss you Tel, xx

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  • He always loved this photo of you both - it was one of his favourites xx

    Posted by Betty on 24/10/2023 Report abuse
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Tina and Peter Wingate donated £20 in memory of Terence

Goodbye old friend, you will be sadly missed.

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  • Thank you both very much xx

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Linda Norton donated £50 in memory of Terence

What a lovely man so kind and helpful. My husband and Terry both had a Toyota supra car at the same time. I gave Terry a shock one day when I drove past driving it. His face was a picture when he realised it was me driving and not my husband.

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  • Our men and their cars Linda! And thank you so much for your generous donation xx

    Posted by Betty on 24/10/2023 Report abuse
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Carmen Coxon donated in memory of Terence

A life well lived! The best we can hope for!

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  • Thank you so much Carmen - Terry would 100% agree with you xx

    Posted by Betty on 21/10/2023 Report abuse
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Antony Loveless wrote

I’m so touched by all of your lovely messages, recollections and donations, you’re all lovely. Would love to read and enjoy all your memories and photos of my lovely dad, so please keep them coming and I hope to see many of you at the celebration of his life on 1st November!

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Charles Ridley donated £20 in memory of Terence

Unfortunately I only met Terry when he was in St Andrews, so feel I missed out on not knowing the real Terry Charlie and Pam

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  • Thank you both very much for your donation. I’m so glad Charlie that you liked the small part of Terry that you did get to know xx

    Posted by Betty on 13/10/2023 Report abuse
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Raymond Lloyd donated £50 in memory of Terence

In loving memory of our great friend Ray & Liz

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  • I’m so touched by your generous donation. ❤️ Thank you both so much xx

    Posted by Betty on 12/10/2023 Report abuse
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