Alex Horstmann (1 Sep 1975 - 16 Aug 2023)

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Location
Cam Valley Crematorium Field Farm Dr, Great Chesterford Saffron Walden CB10 1FE
Date
14th Sep 2023
Time
12pm
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The British Queen 94 High Street, Meldreth Royston SG8 6LB
Date
14th Sep 2023
Time
1.30pm

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We are having a 'celebration of life' in loving memory of wonderful Alex who tragically passed away on 16th August 2023, a star that shone bright and for far too short a time.

Beautiful, kind, charismatic, intelligent, generous Alex – you are utterly irreplaceable, gone too soon and will forever live in our hearts until we meet again.

Thankyou from the bottom of our hearts for being part of Alex’s life and of our lives. We are profoundly grateful for all the visible and invisible webs of love and support that you are weaving around all us now and in years to come.

We will need you and we will be here for you.

On a more practical note, Alex was 'LARGER' than life - black doesn't feel right, please wear colour - as vibrant as you like. If you have any 'silly socks' then wonderful - Alex adored nonsense - part of the reason we loved him so bloody much.

Please e mail flyingonthermalsoflove@gmail.com for details of local accommodation and for webcast login details (if you are unable to attend in person).

Love from Katherine, Thomas, William and Oscar x

Jyoti Prajapati donated £20 in memory of Alex
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Ennismore work trip to Hamburg, Germany. Sukh, Michael and Alex.

Ennismore work trip to Hamburg, Germany. Sukh, Michael and Alex.

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Gavin O'Malley wrote

I am shocked to learn of Alex's passing. Great guy. We didn't know each other well but I appreciated his decency, energy and appetite for life. Ar dheis Dé go raibh se.

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Aileen Daly donated £30 in memory of Alex

So sorry to hear the tragic news. Thoughts and prayers with family. RIP

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So shocked and saddened by the terrible news of Alex's passing. I will always cherish the fond memories of the time we spent in Cork with the four of us. We met playing 'the miser', but I can hardly imagine a more generous person than Alex!

So shocked and saddened by the terrible news of Alex's passing. I will always cherish the fond memories of the time we spent in Cork with the four of us. We met playing 'the miser', but I can hardly imagine a more generous person than Alex!

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Peter and Anne Rowlinson donated £200 in memory of Alex

Our thoughts are with you all.
Sorry that we could not attend in person...but the webcast allowed us to watch the service - a lovely celebration of Alex's life and many lovely words of recollection and reflection.
Peter and Anne Rowlinson and family

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Karen Roles donated in memory of Alex

I'm sorry I couldn't make the funeral. The world is a little darker since Alex left but reading through all of these comments he gave so much love and joy to so many. Alex, you are, and will always be missed.

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You talkin to me?

You talkin to me?

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“Debugging”

“Debugging”

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Don’t judge the shirts, it was the Noughties. His style (hopefully/may have) changed, but I know his fun loving didn’t! So sad to have missed his send off, and will share some other great images shortly! He made my early years in London incredibly fun!

Don’t judge the shirts, it was the Noughties. His style (hopefully/may have) changed, but I know his fun loving didn’t! So sad to have missed his send off, and will share some other great images shortly! He made my early years in London incredibly fun!

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  • They were such fun and epic days there Mr. W - thank you for sharing those :)

    Posted by Bernie on 18/09/2023 Report abuse
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Eilidh Whyte donated in memory of Alex

Alex was a kind and generous mentor when I didn't know I needed one.

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Graham Cook wrote

A really beautiful service yesterday, an honour to be there and pay tribute to Alex (wearing bright red socks!). The number of people there bore testament to how Alex impacted us all - for me a brilliant work colleague who I thoroughly enjoyed working with and who always had a smile and a positive outlook. I came out of every chat with him feeling more positive. An honour to have known him.

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Helen Milestone donated in memory of Alex

Wishing love and prayers to Alex’s family and friends at this time. Alex was one of a kind and I am honoured to have known him

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JP Quinn wrote

Alex greeted me with open arms when I first came to UCC. He was so kind generous, fun and full of devilment. I admired him greatly. I always enjoyed seeing him on his return visits to UCC. My sincere condolences to you all. Alex was a truly individual soul who inspired many. JP Quinn UCC

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William Harris is attending the funeral and the reception
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Magnus MacHale-Gunnarsson wrote

That was a beautiful service, and I am so very grateful that I could follow it online. I as wearing my Mickey Mouse socks and the loudest shirt I could find. I will never, never forget Alex.

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Andy Z donated in memory of Alex

Whenever I met Alex at the club he always greeted me with a wonderful smile, he will be missed so much ...

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Magnus & Catherine MacHale-Gunnarsson donated in memory of Alex
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Geoff Payne donated in memory of Alex

A small token in memory of a great person

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Geoff Payne wrote

Alex was indeed a wonderful person. He always had a smile and a laugh and he was immensely popular at the London Gliding Club. He has left a big gap in the club, so I cannot even imagine how great his loss must feel to his family. My sincere condolences to you all. Sorry I was unable to attend today.

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  • Sending you all our love and prayers today and always xxx

    Posted by Melanie on 14/09/2023 Report abuse
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Peter Farrimond donated in memory of Alex
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Peter Farrimond wrote

So sorry I can’t be there today. Alex was such a lovely person.

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