Alan James Roman (8 Feb 1938 - 2 Apr 2023)

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Date
4th May 2023
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In loving memory of Alan James Roman who sadly passed away on 2nd April 2023 at Darent Valley Hospital Dartford.

Alan was born on 8th February 1938 in Eltham, the son of a Police officer and a devoted mother. He went to school at Eltham Secondary Central School. Alan worked for Shell UK for most of his working life at the ShellMex building on The Strand in London.

His main hobbies were a lifelong interest in birds and wildlife in general. He volunteered at Cobham Wood and Mausoleum National Trust and Northwood Hill RSPB reserve. He was also a keen sportsman enjoying tennis, football and many other sports. He would try anything.

Alan married Sandra Jean Angus in 1963 and had two daughters Caroline and Joanna living in Meopham, Kent.

Alan is survived by his two daughters and two grandchildren. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends he was greatly liked with a lovely sense of humour and a cheerful outlook on life.

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Heather and Peter Toll donated £25 in memory of Alan

Rest in peace Alan

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Graham Jenkinson donated £20 in memory of Alan

I enjoyed so much my conversations with Alan while we both volunteered at Cobham Woods.

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Sandrine Tiozzo donated in memory of Alan
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David Hardy wrote

I first met Alan 73 years ago when we moved in next door in Eltham. We spent most of our teenage years growing up together, inspired by football, tennis and snooker. Also his love for nature became clearly evident. I find it difficult to realise he is no longer here. He was a remarkable man in many ways whose friendship to me I will never forget.

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David Hardy donated £50 in memory of Alan

Rest in peace dear friend

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Linda Mei Stevens donated £10 in memory of Alan
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Neil Daniels donated £20 in memory of Alan
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James Pollard donated in memory of Alan

A great man that will be missed

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Jane Harvey donated £30 in memory of Alan

We will miss you Alan and thank you for everything you did for us.

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Jane Harvey wrote

On behalf of all members of Girlguiding past and present who have met and who meet in Meopham Guide Hut, we thank Alan for all he did. He was a very good friend to us and we will miss him greatly.

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Sarah, Adam, Oliver, Matilda, Jessie and Carole Martin donated £30 in memory of Alan

A neighbour very much missed by us all xx

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Ian Davis donated in memory of Alan

RIP Alan. I’ll miss your great knowledge of the natural world.

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Mike Costello posted a picture
My bridge partner for 30 years - and so much more.  Sadly missed by Mike, Joan & Chris.

My bridge partner for 30 years - and so much more. Sadly missed by Mike, Joan & Chris.

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Margaret Brooks donated £30 in memory of Alan

Alan will be sadly missed.

I fondly remember our adventures with Alan and Sandy, especiall the ones to South Africa and Peru.

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Alan Parker wrote

In memory of Alan's time volunteering for RSPB at Northward Hill-happy days !

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Alan Parker donated in memory of Alan
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Joseph Kilbride donated £50 in memory of Alan
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Jackie Adams donated £40 in memory of Alan

It was good to know you, Alan.

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Elaine & Mike Harrison posted a picture
Taken on a lovely holiday in France.Happy memories.

Taken on a lovely holiday in France.Happy memories.

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Elaine & Mike Harrison donated £30 in memory of Alan

A good man

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52 years ago.  We were lucky to know you Alan. X

52 years ago. We were lucky to know you Alan. X

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Joanna Roman donated £50 in memory of Alan
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Caroline Kilbride donated £50 in memory of Alan
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Irene Robson donated in memory of Alan

I am happy to have known Alan and Sandy as members of the Gravesend RSPB group. Both are sadly missed.

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Christine Kent wrote

I have known Alan since he and Sandra met for the first time at the Shakespeare jazz club in the beginning of the 1960s. After they got married I was very close to the family and wev enjoyed many meals at each other's houses and two holidays with Alan & Sandra. I have very fond memories of Alan and am very sad he is no longer with us.

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Michelle Pollard donated in memory of Alan
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David Winter donated £30 in memory of Alan

Alan,thinking of you and Sandy at this sad time. We miss the Bridge and Jazz we enjoyed with you both and indeed the friendship of you both.

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Phillip Sharp donated £30 in memory of Alan

I have very fond memories of many bird watching trips around Kent with Alan. His enthusiasm, knowledge and lovely sense of humour always made for an enjoyable day out. I’m so sad that he’s no longer with us but very happy to have known him.

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