Pat Antill (8 Jun 1940 - 19 Mar 2023)

RIP Auntie Pat
Love John & Sue

In loving memory of my dear friend - my you rest I peace and rise in glory
Untill we meet again
Love Brenda and Len xxx

My Aunt Pat was such an inspiration to me. She will be missed.

Pat was strong and brave and I was lucky and happy to have her as a friend. God bless you Pat.

Pat you will be surely missed,remember going to the bingo always had a laugh ,that new year when you me lynz and the kids spontaneously decided to have a party ,what an amazing night (into the early hours)many a good night your laugh was infectious your sense of humour and the antics you used to tell me that you got up to .fly high with your angels and rest in peace 🙏 xx

RIP Auntie Pat
Love Sue & Joe x

If I dont make it to the Funeral, Dick and I shall be thinking of you all.

I have some very precious memories of you. Thank you.

Auntie pat
I will always remember the times we spent together...holidays..but most of all playing card when we where young.
Growing up it was allways the thing we wanted to join in with and when me and the girls where allowed we where so chuffed.
So glad we had those fun times
Say hi to nan,grandad,auntie Anne and Steve
Love you allways
Lawrence xxxx

To my big sister. Thanks for all the wonderfull times we shared together.Will miss you always but Mum Dad & Ann will look after you.
Love little sister Elsie

Lots of lovely memories of our dear friend, Pat, from our early teens, she will be missed

Nanny,

How to even articulate the space I hold for you in my heart ❤️

My favourite person as a child and always available at the end of the phone as an adult.

I miss your unexpected but welcomed calls. The only person who ever called my landline in Epsom! I wish I’d kept the voicemail messages just to hear your voice again. “Only me darling, just calling for a chat” … God I’d love a chat right now. You’ve only just left us but I’ve not had a chat with my “Nan” for a few years now.

I’m so grateful I took that random weekday day off that time and surprised you with a visit. We went to bingo, of course, with a packed lunch. A little cheese sandwich, a couple of cherry tomatoes (specifically 3 each!) and packet of crisps. That was the last time I really saw “you” and if I’d known that at the time I’d have really paid attention and cherished each moment so I could recall everything about you, but I’m so thankful for that day. Just me and you 💞

I wish I remembered more from my childhood. I have a few memories from Cyprus. The time there was a gathering at our flat and I didn’t want to go to bed so you told me that if I laid quietly behind you on the sofa Mum would forget I was there. Your flat in Fisco Plaza where on your dressing table you had the little figurine of the gremlin sat on a rock (god knows why you liked that?!) you told me to rub it for good luck and make a wish, which was that you would take me to Disneyland one day as promised. Couldn’t imagine seeing you more out of place than at Disneyland now I think about it!! Driving around in your green Mazda, no seatbelts… those were the days.

You weren’t much for cooking but one time I stayed with you in Canvey and I watched you make ‘Urcha’ and wrote down the recipe. The irony being how fussy you were with food but loved a bit of liver! (IRONy - Liver … did you see what I did there 😏)

Hope there’s an endless supply of biscuits, chocolate and brandy up there. (No fags, you don’t smoke anymore remember 😉)

I love you so much. I’ll miss you forever. I hope you’re proud of me.

Give Nanna a hug from me.

Lots of love as always,
Your Granddaughter 🤍
Aimée xxx

Dearest Pat ❤️
Although I haven’t seen you in absolute years…..I’m really sad that you’ve gone. I’m also glad I haven’t seen you because my strongest memory with you is a bloody good one!
I’ve never been one for seeking out support from other people, but remember when my best friend, your daughter, went off to Cyprus?

When she left I was gutted. More gutted for my loss than I was happy for her getting married

But dearest Pat. You were there. We were there for each other, because two of your most dearest had gone to Cyprus.

You, me and a bottle of something intoxicating.

I’m never going to forget the time we had. At Lyndhurst. Just chatting about all things Linz (for me) and both your girls (for you).

That was my stint at drink driving. Ssshh…..I don’t talk about that to anyone. People wouldn’t believe that I did that, and that I was totally ok with it! 🤪🤪

I always felt a pant of guilt driving home but then the unthinkable happened. I’d left my door keys on your coffee table 🙄 So I had to drive all the way back to you and home again. I totally panicked….I was so sure I was gonna get caught 😳

It was all worth it Pat to just sit with you and so that we could lean into each other and miss the girls together.

You became more than ‘Lindsay’s Mum’ to me. You were my saviour when I missed Linz so much.

Pat. You’ve gone from this world now but you’ll be forever in our hearts 💕

Love always. Dee 💋

(Throw your arms around my dad and tell him I love him and miss him ❤️)

Have wonderful memories when Pat lived in Lyndhurst Rd, always at mine for a cuppa and a chat and our holiday in Spain with all the girls. You will never be forgotten R.I.P Pat xxx