Sad to hear that John passed away, many a happy hour was spent in his presence playing with his boys at their house in Croydon/Purley in the late 70’s/early 80’s when our parents were good friends. Rest In Peace
John Petty (30 Mar 1947 - 6 Oct 2015)
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- Location
- T. Raj 133-135 Brighton Road Coulsdon CR5 2NJ
- Date
- 26th Oct 2015
- Time
- 2.30pm
In loving memory of Albert John Petty who sadly passed away on 6th October 2015
Always 'John' to his friends, he was born March 30, 1947 to wonderful parents Ivy and William ('Bill') Petty. Along with his two sisters 'Sylv' and 'Moff' he grew up in Queens Park, central London, the same terrace house where Ivy was born and where Moff still lives.
Opportunities for early education were limited. Although in later life John proved smart and driven, studying the meat trade at Smithfield College of Butchery and pursuing a Sociology degree with the Open University, his attendance at the Beethoven Street Primary School can politely be described as 'sporadic.' From his early years, John worked with his father, learning the trade as a butcher and by 15 he was employed full time.
In 1966 at age 19, John married Helen Follows (nee Hunt) and they were immediately blessed with their first son Christopher. Almost 6 years later their second, and frankly nicer son, Simon, joined the family. John was a great father, always proud and supportive of his boys. He taught by example that the world is a constant source of wonder and fun, that nothing is impossible, that humble beginnings don’t define you and that any situation can be dramatically improved by laughing at it.
From retail work in butcher shops, John moved to Smithfield Meat Market in central London where he ultimately worked as a commodities trader. He worked tirelessly to support the family, for a time at three separate jobs, but it is to his great credit that his sons never recall him being away, unavailable or ‘too tired’ to play.
Still relatively young, it became increasingly clear that taking instruction from ‘management’ was not working for him and he founded his own butcher business as Scotch Meats. His subsequent three successful shops were renowned for high quality product, Lady Jane sausages and the most entertaining shopping experience for miles around.
Next, John decided on a mid-life career change. He sold the butcher shops and, with the skills he’d developed in business management, a winning personality, a partner but not much more, he began his second self-made career in the chauffeur trade. He built John Alan Car Service from scratch to be well respected in the industry and developed endless tales of the lifestyles of the wealthy, famous and strange. Some tales were true. Others are still being verified.
In his personal life John had the extreme good fortune to meet and fall in love with Christine, a partner in crime who shared his spirit of fun and adventure, and who delighted in (OK tolerated) his endless sense of humour. In 1996 they gathered the sons and their closest friends, flew to America and were married at the Little White Chapel in Las Vegas. Stories of the raucous celebration that followed are still told in the oral histories of that shining city. Vegas is still reeling from the their 10th anniversary return trip in 2006.
John was a recognized fellow of the Honourable Company of Butchers and a dedicated Freemason. He was initiated into The Anglo South American Lodge number 3623 on May 26 1982. He served the Lodge as Master & Treasurer and received the honour of London Grand Rank. John was a dedicated Freemason and embodied the Masonic Principals of Brotherly Love, Relief & Truth, and took great pleasure in the experience and the many great friends he gained through the institution to the end of his life.
John and Chris travelled anywhere that could be fun, often on a moment’s notice. They made multiple trips to the USA, travelled to Nicaragua, Italy, Paris, Belgium, Barcelona and elsewhere with family, and to Singapore, India and other exotic locales with friends. Truth be told, what John enjoyed most was the company of friends over a fine dinner and drinks, lots of laughter and tall tales - no matter where that occurred. There is not a restaurant in the world that wouldn’t light up to his laughter or be invigorated with his spirit, he will be sorely missed and his memory heartily toasted.
He will be remembered with a service at Croydon Crematorium on Monday 26th October at 13:30, followed by drinks and food at T Raj restaurant, Coulsdon. It is requested that attendees do not wear sombre clothing as fitting the celebration of this life.
We ask for no flowers but donations welcome to the designated charities or cheques payable to MDS UK.
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