Norman Harland

Norman Harland (6 Nov 1946 - 10 Jan 2023)

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Location
Garden of England Crematorium Sheppey Way Sittingbourne ME9 8GZ
Date
31st Jan 2023
Time
4pm
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Dear old Norman/Normski/Grandad Norm sadly passed away on Tuesday 10th January. He fought an incredibly long and challenging battle with cancer spanning 13 years. He was brave right to the end.
Incredibly he defied the odds when originally diagnosed, having been given only six months to live at that time. His strength, courage & sheer determination meant he had many precious extra special years with his beloved wife “Lindy Lou” who he cherished so much.
As Norman became more poorly after receiving a terminal diagnosis late last Summer, he continued to focus all of his energy on looking after Linda in any way that he could. He always put her first, and loved her very dearly. It was fitting that in his very final moments, as he lost his tough battle, Linda was able to share memories of a favourite song “Goodnight Sweetheart”. A song that we will all forever remember Norman by.
A life long Gills supporter, Norman even listened to the scores of the match last Saturday against Leicester, with his hat, scarf & shirt on his hospice bed. Struggling with his fast declining health, he was at least able to engage in one final game, bless his heart.
Grandad Norm was dearly loved by his grandchildren and they will sadly miss the fun times that they all shared and his cheeky humour. They all carry with them very happy memories - including days out at the seaside and some scary (very) Halloween parties!
Rest in peace Norman. You were a legend, a warrior and a fighter in equal measure xxx

The funeral will be held at Bobbing Crematorium near Sittingbourne at 4pm on Tuesday 31st January.

Rather than send flowers, the family would love donations to be made to Macmillan or the Wisdom Hospice - two fantastic causes. Thank you xxx

Doreen Secker is attending the funeral
Doreen Secker donated £10 in memory of Norman

Thank you Norman for lots of happy memories over the years.

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  • Thank you Doreen 💙

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Maree Underhill donated £50 in memory of Norman

Fond memories of our much loved brother in law. Rest in peace dear Norman. xxxx
MAREE AND REG

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  • Thank you both for your very kind donation and lovely words 💙💙💙

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Roy Milne wrote

In memory of Norman our dear friend for so many years. Remembering all of our trips away and Thursday boys nights out. He will be sadly missed by Sandy and Roy.
Rest in peace Norman with all our love xxx

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Roy Milne donated £30 in memory of Norman

In memory of Norman our dear friend for so many years. Remembering
all of our trips away and Thursday boys nights out. He will be sadly missed by Sandy and Roy.
Rest in peace Norman with all our love xxx

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  • Thank you both for your very kind donation and happy memories I will always think of Thursday night as Curry Night 🥘🍺💙💙

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pauline watts wrote

Rest in peace Norman, it was always a pleasure to be in your company.
Thinking of you Linda and all the family, with all our love, George and Pauline.xxx

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pauline watts donated £25 in memory of Norman

Rest in peace Norman, it was always a pleasure to be in your company.
Thinking of you Linda and all the family, with all our love, George and Pauline.xxx

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  • Thank you for your kind donation Pauline and George and for your lovely message 💙💙 xx

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Darren Davey donated £20 in memory of Norman

Norman, thanks for being a lifelong friend . You took me to my first ever gig and I've been to a fair few since then 😁. Hopefully you're wherever we go putting the world to rights with my Mum and Dad. We had lots of great times in days gone by. Sleep well matey, never forgotten

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  • Thanks Darren for your kind donation and sharing some memories Norman asked that any football fans should wear their team’s shirts to his funeral 💙⚽️ xx

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Alan Stone donated £50 in memory of Norman

Like so many people, I was saddened to hear that Norman had passed after a long and courageous battle with cancer.
I had known Norman for many years. We both shared a passion for the
Gills, who we had followed since childhood. We would often reminisce about the past and look forward to a more successful future! A chant often heard at games was 'I'm Gillingham til I die'
Norman epitomised that sentiment.
Norman will be sadly missed by family and friends alike. He is now at rest. Gone but not forgotten. Alan

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  • Thanks Alan for your very kind donation and I’m sure Norman would have enjoyed reading your eulogy ⚽️⚽️

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Gail Hickmott donated in memory of Norman

Our thoughts are with you Linda & Family

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  • Thank you Gail 💙 xx

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Gail Hickmott donated in memory of Norman

Our thoughts are with you Linda & Family

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CAROLE COULTHARD donated £10 in memory of Norman

Badminton and the Indian restaurant would not have been so good without you Norman.

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  • Thank you Carole 💙

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Pamela Peters donated in memory of Norman

God Bless Norman

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  • Thank you Pam 💙💙 xxx

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Julie Carey donated £25 in memory of Norman

Rest in peace lovely Norman xx

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Julie Carey donated in memory of Norman

Rest in peace lovely Norman xx

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Julie Carey wrote

We shall miss our dear cousin and friend Norman so much. His courage, strength, determination and positivity were such a huge inspiration to us. Remembering the good times, the fun and the laughter. Rest in peace lovely Norman. All our love Julie, Chris and Family xxxx

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  • Thank you fir your donation Julie and your lovely words🥰. So many wonderful memories of us all sitting in the garden drinking Prosecco and crying with laughter😍. None of us will ever forget the “Snap” moment 😂 or the 👁 in the box! Much love to you all ❤️ xxx

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Russ Large wrote

So sorry to hear of Norman's passing,thinking of you all🙏🙏❤️❤️

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  • Thanks Russ. He is probably cracking jokes with your Dad and telling your Mum what a brilliant cook she was. He loved her stews😋 xxx

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Vickk Wren donated £20 in memory of Norman

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  • Thanks Vicki 💙💙💙 xxx

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  • Blue Candle for the legendary Gills fan x

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