Michael Neville (21 Nov 1942 - 7 Nov 2022)

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Location
Dewsbury Minster Church Dewsbury WF12 8DD
Date
2nd Dec 2022
Time
2pm
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Dewsbury Moor Crematorium Heckmondwike Road Dewsbury WF13 3PL
Date
2nd Dec 2022
Time
3.15pm

Location
The Refectory, Dewsbury Minster Vicarage Road Dewsbury WF12 8DD
Date
2nd Dec 2022
Time
3.30pm

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NEVILLE, MICHAEL
On 7th November 2022, whilst in the safe care of Linson Court Nursing Home, surrounded by his loving family and friends, Mike aged 79, formerly of Barnfield. Much loved brother of Peter and Moira, a dear brother in law of Colleen and Brian, a dearly loved uncle and great uncle.
The funeral service will be held at Dewsbury Minster, on Friday 2nd December 2022 at 2pm, followed by committal at Dewsbury Moor Crematorium at 3:15pm.
Family flowers only please, donations in lieu may be placed in the collection box provided or made online for the benefit of The Minster Funds and The Kirkwood Hospice.
R I P

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Howard Mustoe donated in memory of Michael

Mike was a very friendly and welcoming man and I thank him for his help in the start of my career as a journalist.

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Anne Robinson wrote

As a Lay Reader in the Dewsbury Team Parish, I was a colleague of Mike's for several years. We attended Reader Study Days and licensing events together as well as being at weekly Staff meetings at the Minster. Mike was a very gentle and humble person, and despite having such an eventful and exciting life, he never sought to impress people with his exploits. He did however speak often and most lovingly of his adopted family in Zimbabwe, and did all that he could to support them there. I too was the recipient of his interesting excerpts from The Tablet and other papers, and cards with kind messages on my birthday. He was a kind and gentle soul who his light under a bushel,but spread Christian love wherever he went. May he rest in peace and rise in glory. Amen.

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  • We were privileged to hear him preach about his beloved Zimbabwe at the Women's World Day of Prayer in March 2020 just before lockdown. I will try to post a photo of this. Anne

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Ronan George donated in memory of Michael

RIP Uncle Mike. A life well lived. Love Ronan, Kate and girls

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Susan Crowley posted a picture
Mike on my ancestor altar, watched over by my Mom

Mike on my ancestor altar, watched over by my Mom

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Clive Gillespie donated in memory of Michael

An inspiring and loving gentleman.

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Clare Lawrence donated £20 in memory of Michael

In memory of "Uncle Michael". May you rest in peace. You are all in our thoughts and prayers xx

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Haroon Jogee wrote

To the Neville Family
Please accept my heart felt condolences at the passing of Mike. It is devastating news and we are stunned and numbed with grief.
Mike was a gentle soul, a humanitarian who was committed to promoting harmony, coexistence altruism and integrity.
When the loss of a loved one becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. I have fond memories of our time at Marist that I will always treasure. I am unable to bid you farewell but I am with you in spirit.
Peace love and heavenly blessings to the family.

Rest in peace my dear friend

Haroon Jogee (Haram)

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Mike Hakata donated £20 in memory of Michael

Thank you Uncle Mike for the warmth you brought into everyone's world

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Mike Hakata posted a picture

"Uncle Mike" was the most amazing godfather to me. Here he is holding me in the first week after I was born on the day of my Christening, when he became my godfather. From that day until now he never forgot my birthday. The most wonderful godfather.

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Helen Garforth wrote

What a remarkable man! Mike was my Uncle Mike - a close friend of my parents. He remembered every birthday even when he lived away and I remember receiving beautiful handmade cards from Zimbabwe with photos and always long messages wishing me well in my studies or latterly work and life endeavours. I am grateful to have seen him a few years ago with my mum and dad at his home. I know he will be missed but I am sure today will be about celebrating a rich, interesting and well-lived life, xxx

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Helen Garforth donated £20 in memory of Michael

Dear Kirkwood Hospice, Thank you for your great work looking after cancer patients. This donation is in memory of Mike Neville. Helen

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David Lane wrote

I was Assistant Director responsible for Residential and Day Social Services in Hillingdon when Mike worked at Mead House, and it is likely that I appointed him as Assistant Officer in Charge, though I don’t recall the interview. It was a large building set in spacious grounds, and although the premises were part of the Borough Housing Department’s stock, it was Social Services who ran the unit as a Family Rehabilitation Centre, housing eight families at any one time. Mead House did an excellent job, dealing with a wide variety of problems – debt, marital difficulties, child care and so on.

Mike lived on the premises in a ground floor flat, and so he was virtually on call 168 hours a week, as problems often arose late at night. Mike had left what was then Rhodesia as he was at risk of being called up to join Ian Smith’s army, while, having run a college in Bulawayo, his sympathies lay with the freedom fighters.

Mead House was very handy for Heathrow, and Mike was within his rights to have guests to stay with him, and I was aware that he often met people at Heathrow and put them up till they could find other accommodation. I doubt that I was aware of the extent to which he did this, helping people leave Rhodesia to find safety in England.

As the building came within the Housing Department, they had the right to insist that we housed homeless families there, which led to a tense episode. The Chairman of the Housing Committee was Terry Dicks, who later became an MP and was very right-wing, and he insisted that we should house a white Rhodesian family, who had just arrived at Heathrow. I feared that we might become embroiled in a major political issue if it became known that we were housing white Rhodesians upstairs and black Rhodesians downstairs in Mike’s flat. Fortunately, people moved on and the issue passed.

Since then, we have kept in touch with Mike at intervals – Christmas cards and occasional meals. As the obituaries show, he will be missed. He did a lot of good for a lot of people.

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Gill Seccombe wrote

What lovely man, always welcoming and always smiling. It was a pleasure to chat with him on family occasions. We’ll be thinking about you all today.

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Mike at Crater Lake,Oregon  2019

Mike at Crater Lake,Oregon 2019

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Angela, Mike and Susan in Lithia Park, Ashland,Oregon, 2019

Angela, Mike and Susan in Lithia Park, Ashland,Oregon, 2019

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Happy family times

Happy family times

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My handsome brother xx

My handsome brother xx

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Michael and niece Sarah

Michael and niece Sarah

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Michael and niece Sarah

Michael and niece Sarah

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Michael and nephew Michael

Michael and nephew Michael

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Adrian Seccombe wrote

I met him later in his life, my prime memory of him were his ever smiling eyes.
A man at peace with himself, who brought great light to the world.

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Mike, Susan, Bob, and Angela having a cup of tea after Mike's tour of the York City walls.  2014

Mike, Susan, Bob, and Angela having a cup of tea after Mike's tour of the York City walls. 2014

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Mike and Susan sharing a good laugh in House of The Trembling Madness, York in 2014

Mike and Susan sharing a good laugh in House of The Trembling Madness, York in 2014

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Susan Crowley wrote



I first met Mike 50 yearsago in Zimbabwe when it was still called Rhodesia. I was immediately drawn to his keen mind, his commitment to a life of adventure and service, and his wicked and wry sense of humor. Neither of us knew at that time that he would spend twenty seven Years in Zimbabwe, or that it would truly become his second home. He completely loved the people and the place.

Nor, did the two of us know that he and I would still be fast friends at the time of his death, a peaceful death that he faced with dignity and strength.

After keeping in touch for several years, we lost touch for 35 years. One of the happiest things that has happened to me in the last 10 years was to be able to reconnect with him. A friendship so easily rekindled after such a long time is such a rare and precious thing.

My husband Bob and I were fortunate to be able to visit Mike twice at his home in Dewsbury, and our mutual friend Angela and Mike were able to spent two weeks with us at our home in Oregon in 2019.

Mike and I really loved one another, and he will always be in my heart and mind. It was truly a joy and a treasure to know and love him.

With eternal love for Mike, and sincerest sympathy for his family.

Susan and Bob Crowley

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Delyse Fernandez wrote

Marcus and I first met Mike at Marist Brothers College in Que Que and was instantly drawn to him by his pleasant and sincere character and winning smile. Our friendship cemented over the next few years, over supper and evening chats where we discovered his love for reading and topics of interest all over the world. We were aware of the dedicated teacher he was and the deep impact he had on his young students and in this he leaves behind a rich and lasting legacy. We stayed in touch over the years and kept up a correspondence where he sent us cuttings from newspapers and magazines on topics of shared interests. These and many other beautiful memories of Mike will forever be imprinted on our hearts.
Rest In Peace Mike.
Our Deepest Sympathies to his family.

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Mike Wood is attending the funeral and the reception