We have so many happy memories of time spent with our new neighbours, Robert and Lesley, when we moved to Wakefield in 1997, who soon became close friends. As our little girls grew up together, many a weekend ended with family barbecues in our back gardens, or Saturday night buffets watching Strictly, at which Robert was a most generous and convivial host. We would play Trivial Pursuit, where the depth of his general knowledge shone through; he was particularly difficult to beat on the subject of sport! New Year’s Eve was regularly celebrated together, even after the Walkers – our ‘long distance neighbours’ - moved away to Burton.
We enjoyed Robert’s brilliant organisational skills on an amazing holiday to Florida, one of 10 family holidays we’ve shared with the Walkers over the years. He had a spreadsheet to ensure that things ran smoothly, and each person, including the children, chose the itinerary for one whole day, with communal decisions for the remainder; it was a wonderful, unforgettable holiday. Since the children have grown up, we’ve continued to holiday as couples, and enjoyed exploring new places at home and abroad, trying out restaurants, and then discussing what Robert would write about said restaurants on TripAdvisor when we got home!
Robert was full of gratitude, and enjoyed every opportunity to celebrate the special moments in life. It has been a pleasure and a privilege for us to have been included in Walker family celebrations for all the significant milestones. Whether at home for one of Robert’s amazing roast dinners, with the best Yorkshire pudding you’ll ever taste, or out in a restaurant, the conversation always flowed and there was lots of laughter.
Robert was a dear friend to all four of us, a constant presence in our family’s life for over 25 years, and made our world a brighter place. We are devastated by his tragic loss, and our hearts go out to Lesley, Bethan and Helena.
Ian, Joanne, Becky and Kathryn McManus
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