Stephen P Gay Funeral Service, Longfield

225 reviews

Fifth generation family funeral director in Longfield, offering a 24 hour service, repatriations and memorials for the local community.

Latest Verified Reviews

Peter Cameron 19th Jul 2024

So much gratitude for the incredible care and service that we received, from the moment we stepped in to the parlour. You went out of your way to assist us in all regards and the ceremony was seamless. Thank you so so much.

Barbara Tall 12th Jul 2024

A professional service provided with personal care, attention and compassion.  I was told they were the best around and I fully endorse that. 

Genene Crisp 8th Jul 2024

Very professional. Every step and requests were dealt with understanding and empathy. 

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Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

25 Station Road
Longfield
Kent
DA3 7QD

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

About Us

Stephen P Gay Funeral Service is a funeral director in Longfield, owned and run by Stephen and his sons, David and Dominic, the 5th and 6th generation funeral directors respectively. With a strong family background of five generations, they have acquired the knowledge and experience to provide the local community with a 24 hour service, repatriations and memorials.

Stephen P Gay Funeral Service Longfield is a truly family-run business who can provide any kind of funeral, from traditional services to any kind of bespoke funeral. They can include any special requirements that you may have, with a range of traditional coffins, modern American caskets, wicker and bamboo coffins, eco-friendly cardboards and even one-off coloured coffins printed with your own photo or design. They can provide a range of vehicles, owning a modern fleet of Mercedes hearses and limousines, and also facilitating any kind of funeral transport. motorcycle hearses, white, pink or silver hearses, VWs, Land Rovers or traditional black or white horse drawn carriages or even Shire horses are available.

The funeral home in Longfield has its own calmly decorated chapels of rest, giving you and your closest loved ones the space to say goodbye in peace and quiet. Stephen P Gay are specialists in repatriation if your loved one died abroad, and can make any necessary arrangements in this regard. They also offer home visits if you would prefer to make the funeral arrangements in the comfort of your own home.

Call Stephen P Gay Funeral Service in Longfield at any time of the day or night to begin working together to plan the perfect funeral for your loved one.

Latest Obituaries

Christopher John   Matthews

Christopher John Matthews

Jan 1938 - Jul 2024

Peter     Cameron

Peter Cameron

Jan 1938 - Jul 2024

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Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Peter Cameron 19th Jul 2024

    So much gratitude for the incredible care and service that we received, from the moment we stepped in to the parlour. You went out of your way to assist us in all regards and the ceremony was seamless. Thank you so so much.

  • 5 Barbara Tall 12th Jul 2024

    A professional service provided with personal care, attention and compassion. 

    I was told they were the best around and I fully endorse that. 

  • 5 Genene Crisp 8th Jul 2024

    Very professional. Every step and requests were dealt with understanding and empathy. 

  • 5 Peter Amura 14th Jun 2024

    Wonderful service 
    Beautifully executed kind and caring service 

  • 5 Gareth Woodley 6th Jun 2024

    From beginning to end, very professional and compassionate. Would highly recommend their services.

  • 5 Lynden Norton 3rd Jun 2024

    They were very supportive, caring and kind. Also professional. I felt like they carried all of us along on the day and stepped up as and when it was needed. They made my darling Dad’s send off beautiful! Thank you so much! 
    Lynden Norton 

  • 5 Dawn Fairclough 26th May 2024

    The whole experience was lovely from start to finish. Would recommend to anyone.

  • 5 Anthony Elisak 21st May 2024

    What an excellent service no task to small

  • 5 Anita Thain 14th May 2024

    Stephen and his team were just wonderful. From the moment we rang them to mum's funeral and burial - the service they provided was exemplary. They were professional, kind, understanding, very flexible and of course, reassuring every step of the way. Sam, Pauline and Nataltie really did go the extra mile co-ordinating our mums funeral on quite a limited choice of dates but nothing was too much trouble. The funeral director (forgive me I can't remember his name) on the day and his team were again just lovely and carried our their roles with great professionalism and kindness. I cannot thank you enough for all of your help and support. I would highly recommend the services of Stephen P Gay and his team.
    Kind Regards
    Anita

  • 5 Robert Tily 19th Apr 2024

    Stephen p gay in Longfield and Sam in particular couldn’t have been more accommodating and professional a great service 

  • 5 Sylvia Roberts 18th Apr 2024

    Found Pauline very helpful at all times. Thank you.

  • 5 Dawn Sumner 13th Apr 2024

    We couldn’t ask for better . Everything ran smoothly from the first meeting . I felt visiting the chapel of rest to say my last goodbye was peaceful . I especially liked how the coffin was presented with the lace cover . The day of the funeral was all conducted perfectly a special thanks to Stephen himself who lead and informed us of everything throughout the day . A thank you to all and totally recommend. 

  • 5 Pauline Whitelaw 31st Mar 2024

    Very pleased with all aspects of the service. Friendly, polite and efficient. Made the whole process so easy from start to finish. Thank you.

  • 5 Annette Downs 17th Mar 2024

    Very professional service from start to finish. Thank you for kindness, it made a sad time easier to bear. 

  • 5 Malcolm Leary 15th Mar 2024

    We would like to thank Stephen P Gay for his professional service for our Mum Dorothy Leary funeral.

  • 5 Lynne Waller 9th Mar 2024

    Stephen, and his wonderful team, were all you could hope for in the circumstances of a totally unexpected death. The kindness and consideration of those  who looked after us at every stage was excellent.  John lectured on customer service and this service was exemplary.   The unexpectedly large number attending the funeral, were dealt with diplomatically. A local and privately owned funeral director who was honest, reliable and so helpful.

    Thank you

  • 5 Roy Glover 20th Feb 2024

    We could not of asked for more for my mum they were superb

  • 5 Martin Boddy 20th Feb 2024

    Stephen P Gay were outstanding, nothing was too much trouble. They guided me through all the various procedures with courtesy and compassion at this difficult time. After the loss of my wife of over 56 years.

    Although Stephen P Gay's business is obviously a team effort, I would like to single out Sam for her tremendous help & personalty in getting me over my loss.

    My only other experiences of Funeral Directors were when my Mother & my Aunt died in the 1990's. On those occasions, I used a large well known company in South London. In comparison, I would only give them 3 stars whilst Stephen P Gay I would award 5 stars. Therefore, I would recommend a small family firm every time.

  • 5 Andre Rene Drew 19th Feb 2024

    Stephen Gay has handled the burials and cremations of all of both mine and my wife's family for many years. They are a local family business. They are sympathetic to their clients needs and carry them out in a very professional way. Whenever the sad need for this service is required I wouldn't look anywhere else.

  • 5 Perri Bewsey 17th Feb 2024

    Thankyou to Stephen P Gay and to all members of their team for the kind and sensitive help and advice received during this difficult time. We were taken through every step of the way and kept up to date on all aspects of our Dad's funeral. It makes a huge difference to have kind and professional people guiding you through this difficult time. Please be assured to anyone needing their services you will be in good hands. Thankyou to everyone at Stephen P Gay for making a difficult day easier.

  • 4 Wendy Mann 15th Feb 2024

    I’d like to thank all the staff involved in the preparations for my Mum’s funeral. We were listened to with compassion & understanding at all times when speaking with Nathalie & Sam & on the day. We were happy with the celebrant chosen for us & she did a good job in steering us through the process of getting the information needed to write the eulogy, she also showed compassion. We felt that we needed more guidance about the arrangements & it was a lot  to take in during the initial meeting but with a second meeting we were able to get all the answers to our questions & things became clearer. We weren’t rushed at any time whilst making decisions. On the day the team were very respectful & guided us through the service with professionalism. The day went smoothly so thank you. 

  • 5 Jane Fullager 15th Feb 2024

    From the first phone call with Sam, our meeting with Nathalie, numerous questions to Pauline and David and his team on the day of the funeral, not to mention the staff behind the scenes, Stephen P Gay were so compassionate towards our family. They understood our needs that we wanted to give my late husband the best send off we could and made sure every detail we requested was dealt with great care. Their personal touch, respect and professionalism were impeccable. 
    We thank the team for making, what is the most saddest of days an easier day to get through 💙💙. 

  • 5 Valerie Gibbs 2nd Feb 2024

    Fantastic can not fault the staff Natalie,Sam and Pauline in the Longfield office 
    Can not thank you enough for your support during this difficult time 
    Arranged the funeral in less than a week due to religion 
    Thank you again

  • 5 Susan Ward 28th Jan 2024

    Nothing was too much trouble and the service received was professional throughout. The level of care received was really appreciated. 

  • 5 Susan Butcher 19th Jan 2024

    Nice people, excellent service.

Address
25 Station Road
Longfield
Kent
DA3 7QD

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Latest Verified Reviews

Peter Cameron 19th Jul 2024

So much gratitude for the incredible care and service that we received, from the moment we stepped in to the parlour. You went out of your way to assist us in all regards and the ceremony was seamless. Thank you so so much.

Barbara Tall 12th Jul 2024

A professional service provided with personal care, attention and compassion.  I was told they were the best around and I fully endorse that. 

Genene Crisp 8th Jul 2024

Very professional. Every step and requests were dealt with understanding and empathy. 

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