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S. Stibbards & Sons, Rayleigh

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A family-owned funeral home in Rayleigh, near Benfleet, supporting families with compassionate and caring funeral services

Latest Verified Reviews

Jane Gillingwater 2nd Apr 2025

Stibbards have been absolutely brilliant. They have made a really sad and difficult time more bearable by being so supportive, helpful and considerate. On behalf of my family, I ... would like to thank them for everything they have done and highly recommend their services.  more

Faye Lewsey 1st Apr 2025

From the moment we called them all members of staff have been so helpful, respectful and caring. Every aspect was arranged meticulously and they helped us to navigate through all t ... he necessary steps in a polite and professional manner. Thank you for making the funeral run so smoothly on the day. A 10 out of 10 service all round.  more

Dave Gaffney 23rd Mar 2025

So Impressed with the service we received from the minute we arrived at Rayleigh office we new we had chosen right for our daughter, Leo was outstanding from the initial arrangemen ... ts to the chapel visits and the day itself nothing was ever to much, Stuart on the day was equally as good making contact before to make sure all our wishes were seen to and that the  flowers were organised as we wished. The Service on the day was carried out by John Stanard whose readings and support of the speakers was second to none. Thank you Leo, Stuart and John for your professionalism and caring nature in making our Daughters final journey memorable…. more

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Funeral Services

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Home visit
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest

Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

Weir View House
533 Rayleigh Road
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 3TN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours
Call: 01268 202509

About Us

The caring team at S Stibbards & Sons understand that contacting a funeral director can seem daunting, but with over 150 years experience, they are there to listen, reassure and support families at this very difficult time.

As a funeral home with family values at its heart, its focus is upon providing compassionate funeral care to families in Rayleigh, Benfleet and the surrounding area at whatever time of day or night it is needed.

When it can be hard to focus on decision-making, it is the role of their caring team to listen and support families in a reassuring space where they can focus on their loved one.

S Stibbards & Sons’ Rayleigh funeral home is a completely new site with state-of-the-art care facilities. The new funeral home and care centre is the result of 5 years of planning, 18 months of building and 156 years of experience and knowledge. prior to opening in 2023. With two chapels of rest, bespoke washing facilities, large gathering rooms which allow extended family groups to come together, and industry leading modern facilities for the care of the deceased, Weir View House is a truly inclusive and fully featured funeral home.

Whether families prefer a full traditional funeral service, or a quiet farewell tailored to their needs, funeral director Martin Stibbards and his experienced staff aim to ensure that the arrangements fulfil every family’s wishes.

Stibbards offers a fleet of modern Jaguar hearses and limousines to ensure families and their loved ones will travel in comfort, driven by their professional staff. Traditional horse-drawn hearses, vintage vehicles and other bespoke options can also be arranged.

S Stibbards & Sons is a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Homes Association (SAIF) and meets the high standards set by both.

It offers Golden Charter funeral plans to those who are considering the future, while as part of its support for families, it offers in-house bereavement counselling.

Call S Stibbards & Sons for a compassionate and helpful funeral service in Rayleigh.

Latest Obituaries

Barbara 'Barb' Margaret Mundy

Barbara 'Barb' Margaret Mundy

Mar 1946 - Mar 2025

Frederick James Dansey

Frederick James Dansey

Apr 2025 - Apr 1953

Margaret Ellen Pepper

Margaret Ellen Pepper

May 1935 - Mar 2025

Thelma Margaret Louise Watts

Thelma Margaret Louise Watts

Nov 1942 - Mar 2025

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Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Jane Gillingwater 2nd Apr 2025

    Stibbards have been absolutely brilliant. They have made a really sad and difficult time more bearable by being so supportive, helpful and considerate. On behalf of my family, I would like to thank them for everything they have done and highly recommend their services.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Jane, Thank you so much for your kind words and recommendation. We’re truly grateful to have been able to support you and your family during such a difficult time. Providing care, compassion, and guidance is at the heart of what we do, and it means a lot to know that our efforts have made a difference for you and your family.

  • 5 Faye Lewsey 1st Apr 2025

    From the moment we called them all members of staff have been so helpful, respectful and caring. Every aspect was arranged meticulously and they helped us to navigate through all the necessary steps in a polite and professional manner. Thank you for making the funeral run so smoothly on the day. A 10 out of 10 service all round. 

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Faye, Thank you so much for your kind words. We are truly grateful to hear that we was able to support you during such a difficult time. Providing respectful and caring service is our top priority, and it’s wonderful to know that we could help make the day run smoothly for you. Your feedback means a lot to us I will pass your thanks on to all of the staff.

  • 5 Dave Gaffney 23rd Mar 2025

    So Impressed with the service we received from the minute we arrived at Rayleigh office we new we had chosen right for our daughter, Leo was outstanding from the initial arrangements to the chapel visits and the day itself nothing was ever to much, Stuart on the day was equally as good making contact before to make sure all our wishes were seen to and that the  flowers were organised as we wished. The Service on the day was carried out by John Stanard whose readings and support of the speakers was second to none. Thank you Leo, Stuart and John for your professionalism and caring nature in making our Daughters final journey memorable….

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Dave, Thank you so much for your kind words. We are truly grateful for the opportunity to support you and your family during such an sad time. The Horses was a wonderful send off for her final journey. Your feedback means a great deal to us, and we’re honoured to have been a part of Lauren Day

  • 5 Karen Sallows 21st Mar 2025

    I would like to thank Stibbards for the care and attention given to us throughout. Wendy was amazing, she guided us through the whole process with empathy and kindness. Everything ran smoothly on the day. A first class service at a very difficult time. 

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Karen, thank you for your kind words, I am so pleased that Wendy was so supportive of you during the arrangements, I hope we served you well.

  • 5 Kevin Keeble 21st Mar 2025

    Amazing service by everybody involved. Thank you for making a very difficult time such a meaningful occasion for the whole family. Support from David, Rebecca and Scott were outstanding. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Kevin, Thank you for your kind words. We are truly honored to have been able to support you and your family during such a difficult time. Knowing that our efforts brought meaning to this occasion means a great deal to us. David, Rebecca and myself are incredibly touched by your appreciation. I hope all went well on your return to the Royal Oak.

  • 5 Nicole Brown 14th Mar 2025

    Professional family run company providing a full spectrum of services. 
    Helpful staff always on hand to provide advice and support. Very straight forward and costs visible. 
    Full confidence then dealing with our loved one. 

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Nicole, thank you so much for your kind words. We’re pleased to hear that you had a positive experience with our team. We always strive to provide the best support and guidance for our clients, and it’s wonderful to know we’ve met your expectations. Your confidence in us means a lot, and we’re honored to have been able to assist you

  • 5 Sarah Jeacock 10th Mar 2025

    We can’t thank you enough for taking the stress out of what was an extremely emotional day for us all. From our first point of contact Leo who was excellent at his job to the media team, and all who were present on the day, ultimate professionalism and sensitivity was shown. Thank you all so much and well done 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Sarah, Thank you for your heartfelt feedback. It means so much to hear that Leo and everyone involved were able to provide you with professionalism and sensitivity during such an emotional time. Knowing that they helped ease your stress and support you throughout the day is truly meaningful. Your kind words and appreciation will be passed on to the team and are deeply valued—thank you again.

  • 5 Carol Judd 4th Mar 2025

    Professional from start to finish. Leo and Lee showed kindness and warmth and made such a very sad day easier to handle. I would say they are the best in their profession

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Carol, Thank you for your kind words. It’s heartwarming to know that Leo and Lee could provide the kindness and warmth needed to navigate such a difficult time. Your acknowledgment of their professionalism and compassion speaks volumes, and I’m sure it will mean a great deal to them to know they were able to make a very sad day a little easier for you.

  • 5 Debbie Jones 4th Mar 2025

    From making the first step to booking and arranging the funeral and the step by step journey leading to the day was so smooth running. The care, support and friendliness offered made a very sad time a lovely experience.

    The funeral day was so perfect and I will remember the day with so much love for the rest of my life. That is all thanks to Stibbards.

    Thank you so much for everything you have done to make the day so special.

    Thank you

    Debs xx

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Debbie, Thank you for taking the time to share such kind sentiments. We are so pleased that you have been supported through such a difficult time with such care and attention. It's heartwarming to know that even during such a sad time, We were able to create a day filled with love and beautiful memories for you to cherish forever. I hope all went well on your return to Rayleigh lodge and a toast was raised to a very special lady.

  • 5 Anna Robson 3rd Mar 2025

    We lost my 11yr old son. We dealt with Martin and Lee, both were so kind and professional. It’s a horrendous time and they made all the logistics easier and really helped us give our son the day he deserved. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Anna, Thank you for your kind sentiments. We are glad to hear that Martin and Lee were able to provide the kindness and professionalism you needed during such a difficult time. Its touching to know they helped ensure your son had a day that honored his memory.

  • 5 Shaun Curtin 20th Feb 2025

    Apologies for the late review. 
    We asked Stibbards to deal with my late mum’s funeral on the 31st December 2024. We dealt mainly with Wendy, who was very professional, empathetic and knowledgeable. She guided us through the process and what you have to do and she was a huge help to us. It must be difficult dealing with people and families on one of the worst days of your life. 
    On the day of the funeral, I remember dealing with Simon, who again, was very professional and respectful.
    Stibbards were excellent all round, not one complaint from us, plus the new premises close to Rayleigh Weir are also superb.
    Thank you everyone at Stibbards.
    Shaun & Kate

    Simon Lawrence replied
    Dear Shaun, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with Wendy and the team. I hope everything went well for you and your family back at the White Hart.

  • 5 Kate Quigley 12th Feb 2025

    Wendy who dealt with the funeral was absolutely fabulous I knew my husband was well looked after and safe. Nothing was too much trouble for Wendy, she kept us well informed and up to date about everything

    Thank you to the team on the day, you guys were excellent . also a mention about Emma, the celebrant she too did a lovely eulogy for him.

    Stibbards are funeral directors I would highly recommend

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Kate, We are deeply touched by your words. Wendy and the entire team will be so pleased to know that their efforts made a difference during this difficult time. Your satisfaction and comfort were our priorities, and it's heartening to hear that you felt your husband was well looked after.

    We will also pass on your kind words to Emma, who will be glad to know her eulogy was meaningful to you. Your recommendation means a lot to us.

  • 5 Susan Deans 4th Feb 2025

    We were very happy with all aspects of the services we received. The assistance in the planning of the funeral and the way in which things were carried out, on the day itself, could not have been better. 
    Stibbards have our sincere thanks and we cannot recommend them highly enough. 

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Susan, thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts with us. We are so pleased that we served you well in your time of need and your kind recommendation.

  • 5 Trudy Tillbrook 29th Jan 2025

    Professional, helpful and efficient funeral directors. The office staff, Pall bearers, Celebrant were fantastic. 
    Would thoroughly recommend.
    Trudy

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Trudy, We are so pleased to hear that you have been cared for so well by our team here at Stibbards. Your words of recommendation are gratefully received.

  • 5 Judith Princiotto 27th Jan 2025

    We cannot thank Stibbards enough for their care not only of Giuseppe but our entire family too. Their utter professionalism respect and care on the day surpassed our every need. Thank you is just not enough. Jude Emma and Elena x

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Jude, Thank you for taking the time and expressing such kind words. We are so pleased that the care for Giuseppe and the day of the funeral were beyond satisfactory. Although the elements tried their very best to intervene, Giuseppe got the send of he fully deserved. I hope all went well on your return to Beke Hall.

  • 5 Paul Longman 21st Jan 2025

    Stibbards staff were very supportive and helpful throughout the passing of my father. A massive thank you from myself and all my family

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Paul, Thank you for taking the time to share such kind words. We are pleased to hear we have been able to support you and your family through such a difficult time. The service went well and the personal tributes read by yourself, Tina and the grandchildren were perfect.
    From the team here at Stibbards, Again...We thank you.

  • 5 Sarah Layen 11th Jan 2025

    The process didn’t feel real but Wendy guided us and helped us through a difficult time when making decisions didn’t come easy. We met scott the day before mums funeral and he was very calming and made us feel at ease introducing himself to the family. Thankyou so much for everything and looking after mum 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Sarah, On behalf of Myself and Wendy, it is a pleasure to know that we have been able to support you and your family through such a difficult time. The service was a perfect tribute to Mum and everyone done so well with their speeches. Thank you for taking the time to share such kind words, it is always well received and very much appreciated.

  • 5 Beverly Pyle 3rd Jan 2025

    Stibbards Rayleigh 
    We received a very professional  service from everyone. 
    Wendy our arranger was very friendly and helpful arranging the cremation, she always returned calls and sorted any queries or problems and answered our many questions. 
    We were lucky to have a friendly face with Scott our Mr Top Hat who was respectful of our wishes and gave a great service. He knew my husband and so did Darren who was a friendly and caring driver. 
    Thank you all at Stibbards Rayleigh for making a very sad occasion the best it could possibly be. 
    Beverly Pyle

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Beverly, We really appreciate the time taken to share such kindhearted sentiments. From Wendy guiding you through the arrangements to being cared for so well on the day...We thank you.
    A true testament to Nigel as he filled the chapel twice over and I hope all went well back at the golf club.

  • 5 Claire Pitchford 27th Dec 2024

    Very kind, caring, compassionate, excellent service I received from Wendy at the Rayleigh office and her colleague's from start to finish highly recommend Stibbards thank you

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Claire, Thank you for your kind recommendation. The praise for Wendy and the team will be passed on, to which I'm sure will be gratefully received.

  • 5 Tony Knell 27th Dec 2024

    From the initial phone call, right through to the end of the funeral service itself, there was always polite & professional advice readily available.

    I would like to mention 2 of the staff who gave a very kind and compassionate service from start to finish.

    1. Wendy. She took us through the whole procedure at our own pace, answering all the questions in detail. She was also on hand with a box of tissues and a lovely cup of coffee.

    2. Scott. This man goes far above and beyond to make sure that everything is done with the utmost care and compassion. Nothing is too much trouble.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Tony, Thank you for taking the time to share such kind words. Wendy and myself feel honored with our special mentions and so pleased that you have received such a professional service from start to finish. Dad would have been made up that his final journey was on the Bedford Truck.

  • 5 Duncan Ford 17th Dec 2024

    The staff at Stibbards make what is a very difficult time, very easy!
    From start to finish, the service is excellent.
    On the day, Scott went above and beyond to ensure everything ran smoothly and gave us an amazing little gesture at the end.
    I can't speak highly enough of how we were treated.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Duncan, Thank you for taking the time to leave these kind words. It was my privilege to make a tough day that little bit easier and that visiting Mums grave after the service was well received.

  • 5 Barbara Cook 8th Dec 2024

    A highly professional and caring service from everyone eased me through a difficult time. I would recommend them.

  • 5 Sharon Scanlan 24th Nov 2024

    Excellent service, from start to finish, very dignified and curtious, made a sad occasion as good as it can be. Thank you

  • 5 Dean Gray 24th Nov 2024

    From start to finish we felt comfortable and confident that Stibbards would do an amazing job. Wendy was brilliant and talked us through every stage of the funeral. Stibbards did our Mum proud and I would totally recommend them to anyone having to deal with funeral arrangements. Thank you Wendy & Stibbards. 

  • 5 Mandy Carroll 21st Nov 2024

    Thank you to everyone involved with the arrangements for my dads funeral , you was all very helpful.
    Your team on the day were amazing especially Scott who was very attentive to all our needs . Thank you 

Call 24 hours: 01268 202509

Address
Weir View House
533 Rayleigh Road
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 3TN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Latest Verified Reviews

Jane Gillingwater 2nd Apr 2025

Stibbards have been absolutely brilliant. They have made a really sad and difficult time more bearable by being so supportive, helpful and considerate. On behalf of my family, I ... would like to thank them for everything they have done and highly recommend their services.  more

Faye Lewsey 1st Apr 2025

From the moment we called them all members of staff have been so helpful, respectful and caring. Every aspect was arranged meticulously and they helped us to navigate through all t ... he necessary steps in a polite and professional manner. Thank you for making the funeral run so smoothly on the day. A 10 out of 10 service all round.  more

Dave Gaffney 23rd Mar 2025

So Impressed with the service we received from the minute we arrived at Rayleigh office we new we had chosen right for our daughter, Leo was outstanding from the initial arrangemen ... ts to the chapel visits and the day itself nothing was ever to much, Stuart on the day was equally as good making contact before to make sure all our wishes were seen to and that the  flowers were organised as we wished. The Service on the day was carried out by John Stanard whose readings and support of the speakers was second to none. Thank you Leo, Stuart and John for your professionalism and caring nature in making our Daughters final journey memorable…. more

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